Kemarin Malam, saya berbincang dengan salah satu sahabat saya. Mungkin sudah lama kami tidak ngobrol panjang, sejak disibukkan dengan transisi kehidupan. Saya yang mulai sibuk mengajar privat, dan dia yang sibuk bekerja di tempat yang baru. Yah, jalan hidup memang ga bisa ditebak. Hari ini rasanya kita nyaman dengan keadaan yang serba mudah, besoknya bisa …
Author: Ikrim Maizana
A blog about a young lady who wants to share her thoughts and her daily journals.
She has changed
One thing I realized happens to anyone, to any “thing” in this universe is change. I have learned that everything can change. Even human being or a tiny dust in the corner of your bedroom sublimated. Or your clothes are changing the color just because you wear it everyday or you don’t wear it anymore, …
When A Man Loves Her
She is a person I know She knows what she wants She is an independent woman, a career woman, who helps her family financially since ten years ago She has a lot of dreams. Being rich, getting away from her burdens, family matters, finding soulmate, living a quiet life. Without any disturbances by her surroundings. …
2022 so far…
Hi! Mari kita rangkum 2022 yang sudah memasuki pertengahan bulan maret sejauh ini (yeay, bentar lagi gajian!!). Alhamdulillah aku udah mulai baikan (ceilah pake 'aku'). Baikan dalam artian sudah berkurang menyalahi diri sendiri, menyalahi takdir buruk yang menimpaku, menyalahi lingkungan sekitar ku. I am beyond happy for that. Di awal tahun 2022 ini juga aku …
Hi 2022
Hi! How are you? Certainly, I do not know what to write. Been so long since the last time checked out this blog. This place has been my safest place for sharing my pet peeves, my happiness, my regrets, my healing journey. Whenever I look back through my posts years ago, I can see how …
Welcoming Adulthood
Selamat datang di dunia dewasa, dimana pertanyaan berapa jumlah gajimu lebih menakutkan dibanding ditanya kapan nikah. Selamat datang di dunia dewasa, dimana akan ada datang hari dimana kamu tidak bisa makan apapun karena efek stress atau karena tidak punya uang sepeserpun? Selamat datang di dunia dewasa, karena kamu selalu di cap tidak memiliki sopan santun …
28 . A Reflection
Actually this is a very late post. I have been thinking about what I’m gonna write in this post since last month. Haha. Yet I haven’t write a single word. 28 tahun, dan saya sudah apa? Being an extrovert and it depends on situation Entah mengapa, tanpa saya sadari saya lebih open ke orang dan …
Contemplation: Kim JiYoung, Born 1982
Hari ini akhirnya saya berhasil menamatkan satu buku setalah 5 bulan tidak bisa menamatkan satu buku pun. Biasanya baru baca dua tiga halaman, saya langsung bosan dan kehilangan interest untuk menyelesaikan membaca buku. Buku terakhir yang saya baca dengan minat yang besar adalah Trilogy Crazy Rich Asian. Those books are good to read. Anyway, saya …
Happiness is found within ♡
One of the issues we have during the adulting phase is the insecurity and the need for validation – whether or not we are on point. And why not when everyone else are hustling,slaying and enjoying all those good stuffs and we seem to be almost stagnant?
Undeniably every single person faces challenges but for some unfathomable reasons our problems always look bigger, more serious and the others always look trivial and less important. Our situation always looks worse and we wonder why are the others even complaining! They look so much better off. We would be so happy if we had that salary-raise, that promotion, that spouse, that house, that car, those degrees, those friends or that body. We would be so much happier to live in that country, with that community, with that family. Do I even have to mention how social media aids you so much in…
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Boundaries
Source: Pinterest It is a quick writing yet very helpful to start creating my own boundaries. and yes, it is okat to say NO. This is from @mellow.doodles . you can search and surf her stuff in Instagram. I hope this may help you as well. Here they are. Boundaries sound like: I will end …
Dear Ikrim 